If you have seen the popular TV show FRIENDS, then let’s take a leaf out of a particular episode. When Rachel is teaching Joey how to ride a boat, she yells at him constantly and realises that those were the exact violent words her father would use when they were kids.
On one hand there is nothing wrong in repeating what your parents said as long as it is healthy and positive. But the problem arises when those words are negative! Always keep a check on your language, what you say when you say to your partner. Also, keep tabs on your reactions, and work on yourself, take professional help if you feel it is disturbing.